Find ways to deal with negative emotions

There is no question that the pandemic has affected the mental and emotional health of Americans of all ages. We have experienced months of social isolation, job changes and unemployment, school closures, and other disruptions. This has led to a surge in the number of people reporting high levels of stress, anxiety and depression. Given the uncertainty of when life will return to normal, finding ways to manage negative emotions and strengthen your mental health is important.

Building and exercising resilience skills can help protect your mental and emotional health. Try these tips:

• Stay in touch with positive and supportive people, even if you can’t see them in person. Strong social connections can reduce stress and help you feel happier and more energetic. If you haven’t already, learn to use video platforms like FaceTime and Zoom to stay in touch with friends and family.
• Practice ways to manage everyday stress. For some people, a daily walk eases the pressure of the day. Try meditation, reading, yoga, working on a hobby, listening to music or any other activity that you enjoy. Practice finding something you can be grateful for every day. You will feel more positive and recharged.
• Find what motivates you. Research shows that people who feel they have a purpose in life tend to be happier and live longer. For some, being creative, helping other people or devoting their time and energy to a cause can be the best motivators.
• Make self-care a priority. Physical and mental health are closely intertwined. In difficult times, it is important to get enough sleep, eat a healthy diet and exercise. Avoid using alcohol, tobacco or other drugs to cope with negative emotions; they can make sadness, depression and anxiety worse.
• Limit the amount of time you spend on social media and the news. If you are constantly frustrated and upset over what you see in the news or on social media, limit or take a break from both.
• Maintain your sense of humor and practice reframing negative thoughts. If you become aware that negative thoughts and images are invading your mind, draw your attention to your surroundings. Being present in the moment, or mindful, is one way to break a pattern of negative thinking. Humor is another way to defuse negative emotions.
• Give others the benefit of the doubt. Everyone is affected by the pandemic in one way or another, and others’ emotions may not be obvious. Be kind in any interaction with others.

If you find that your mental health symptoms are negatively impacting your quality of life, consider talking to a professional.

To learn more about Magellan Healthcare’s behavioral health resources, click here.

With the hope of a vaccine on the horizon, it is important to keep in mind that the global pandemic is still prevalent. It will take time for these vaccines to reach the general population, and the first recipients will be front-line medical workers and at-risk populations. Although the introduction of a vaccine is great news, we must stay vigilant in our efforts to end COVID-19 and that’s where social responsibility comes in. Social responsibility is the obligation of everyone in a community to make decisions that benefit society at large. It is important to remember that your actions can protect you, the ones you love and the community.

Here are five key ways to be socially responsible while we continue to fight the COVID-19 pandemic:

1. Stay home, if possible – remaining at home to keep yourself and others safe is important, but can also cause severe loneliness. Remember that physical distance does not have to mean complete isolation. Keep in touch with loved ones through phone or video calls, spend time searching for meaningful gifts or messages you can send them, or even get together and enjoy a physically distanced outdoor meal.
2. Practice good hygiene – remember to wash your hands with soap and water for at least 20 seconds to keep germs at bay. Make sure to do this before you eat, after using the restroom, and after blowing your nose, sneezing, or coughing. If you cannot wash with soap and water, hand sanitizer is a good alternative. Avoid touching your face, and regularly clean and disinfect high-touch areas.
3. Wear a mask — masks help slow the spread of coronavirus and protect both the person wearing the mask and those around you. Find a comfortable, fun mask that suits you!
4. Perform acts of kindness – support those who are most vulnerable in your community. There are many acts of kindness you can do during this time – run errands for an elderly neighbor, send handwritten cards to a nursing home, donate food to your local food bank. Helping others will put a smile on your face, too!
5. Show gratitude – many front-line workers have been working diligently since the pandemic began. Be grateful for those who serve our community, such as healthcare workers, childcare professionals, teachers, and other essential workers. You can even make a difference by offering to help provide childcare for essential workers, or making homemade masks or meals to give out.

We have come a long way in this pandemic and need to work together to bring it to an end. Do your part to stay healthy and be socially responsible.

Normal holiday stressors can be compounded when we miss someone we have lost or are impacted by other hardships. This year, the sense of loss – of a loved one, financial security and a sense of “normal” – has touched many of us due to the COVID-19 pandemic. As we’re making plans to celebrate the holidays in unprecedented times, let’s take a break with Magellan’s Dr. Shareh Ghani as he discusses ways to address feelings of loss, practice self-care and make the most of this holiday season.

Magellan: Dr. Ghani, thank you so much for being here with us to share your many years of expertise in helping patients with behavioral health needs. Our first question: Is it possible to enjoy the holidays when we are experiencing the pain of losing a loved one to COVID-19 or something else?

Dr. Ghani: Thank you for having me. The pandemic has taken a toll on our community as we have lost loved ones prematurely, and we continue to experience sustained emotional pressure as COVID continues to spread. It is vitally important that we celebrate the holidays, exchange gifts and cards, gather virtually, and celebrate life. Spreading love and joy in these trying times will bring much-needed respite to the brain and body and boost our immune systems.

Magellan: How can we overcome feelings of worry and anxiety due to a job loss or other financial insecurity during this holiday season?

Dr. Ghani: Losing a job obviously leads to worry, anxiety and even questioning one’s own competence. The pandemic has helped many people shift focus to the “must haves” and not worry about the “nice-to-have” luxuries in life. Some are paying more attention to their health and fitness, minimizing spend, and planning for the future. Having a good strategy will help reduce the anxiety of uncertainty. If need be, talk to a therapist.

Magellan: Do you have any tips for people experiencing distress over not being able to celebrate the holidays in the way they may have in the past?

Dr. Ghani: One needs to evaluate the reason why we are changing our lifestyle. Social distancing helps stop the spread of the virus. Those who take this threat to our lives lightly may experience distress. Understanding the gravity of the situation alleviates it. We are celebrating in smaller groups so we can defeat the virus and return to our old ways of celebrating holidays safely. Think of it as a form of delaying gratification for better outcomes.

Magellan: What is your general advice for anyone who is experiencing loss to feel better and be able to experience joy this holiday season?

Dr. Ghani: Losing loved ones is a part of our life cycle. Human beings are resilient beings. Remember – those that we have lost would have wanted us to be happy. We should think about the happy moments we shared with those that are not here today and celebrate life.

Magellan: Why is it important to practice self-care and be an advocate for one’s own mental health?

Dr. Ghani: Good eating habits and physical exercise are key to physical and emotional wellness. Sleeping at least eight hours a day, hydrating well and experiencing joy and happiness are also important. All these things help with mental health. Relationships, family, helping others and being grateful add to a joyous life experience.

As winter approaches, efforts in many states across the country to control a second rise in COVID-19 infections also mean continued social isolation and hardship for millions of people. High, chronic levels of stress resulting from unemployment and economic insecurity, school closures, disruption to normal routines, illness, and loss have a negative impact on mental and physical health. In addition to the burden of the pandemic, simmering political and social tensions have left many people feeling distressed and threatened.[1]

As a nation, we face a challenging winter even as coronavirus vaccination news looks promising. It will be months before a vaccine can be widely distributed across the population, and even then, life may not be back to normal. In the meantime, it is important to monitor and care for your mental health as we move through this next phase.

People at Risk

A significant number of Americans report feeling depressed and anxious as a result of the pandemic. People who are already prone to mental health problems, people with low incomes, minorities, young people and isolated older adults (especially those living in facilities) are at higher risk of depression.

If you or a loved one are struggling with persistent feelings of sadness and hopelessness that last for two weeks or more, have lost interest in things you used to enjoy, have thoughts of self-harm and/or experience sleep disturbances and changes in appetite, it is important to see a doctor for an evaluation and possible treatment of your symptoms. There are effective treatments for depression, including medication and various therapies.

Building Resilience

There are several ways to build resilience and prepare emotionally for winter shutdowns. Research shows that resilience skills can be learned and include the following:

• Social connections. A strong social support network is one of the most important parts of building resilience. If face-to-face contact is not possible, stay in touch with family and friends by phone or video. Check in on friends and neighbors who are having a hard time.
• Pay attention to negative thoughts and practice gratitude. Resilient people tend to be optimistic and flexible in their thinking. If the constant negative bombardment of news and social media makes you anxious and unhappy, limit or take a break from your screen time.
• Assess what you can and cannot change. Focus on positive actions that you can take, even if the possibilities seem limited. Tap into your talents: revisit an old hobby or try something you’ve always wanted to do.
• Take care of yourself. Maintain routines, get enough sleep and exercise and eat a healthy diet. Avoid using alcohol or other drugs to combat sadness or boredom.

Having goals and a purpose can also increase resilience. The pandemic has led many to rediscover a new appreciation for their gifts, relationships and the values that give meaning to their lives. If you are doing all the right things to build your resilience and still feeling down, make an appointment with your doctor. You will get through this.

For more information and tips, visit MagellanHealthcare.com/COVID-19.

[1] Nancy Schimelpfening,“This COVID-19 Spike Will Also Hit our Mental Health with a ‘Second Wave,’” September 23, 2020, Healthline, https://www.healthline.com/health-news/this-covid-19-spike-will-also-hit-our-mental-health-with-a-second-wave#Why-is-the-pandemic-putting-our-mental-health-at-risk?

We all need to be cautious as COVID-19 continues to spread across the United States. However, people with type 1 or type 2 diabetes need to be extra careful. According to the CDC, the risk of catching the virus isn’t greater for those with diabetes, but the symptoms could be worse. That’s especially true if diabetes is not well managed or controlled. Here are some ways to reduce your chance of contracting COVID-19 if you have diabetes.

• Keep your distance
  The best way to avoid getting sick is to stay home. However, we know that is not always possible. If you do go out, stay 6 feet away from other people and wear a face mask.
• Use good hygiene
  It’s important to wash your hands often to prevent the spread of infection. Be vigilant about washing your hands before you give yourself a finger stick or insulin shot. Also, remember to clean each area first with soap and water or rubbing alcohol.
• Keep your blood sugar under control
  When you have diabetes, your blood sugar levels may be consistently high. Many parts of your body can be affected or damaged by too much sugar including your immune system, which puts you at greater risk of infection.
• Keep moving
  Your lifestyle may have changed since the COVID-19 pandemic. You may be working remote, going out less, or avoiding the gym. However, moderate activity is still very important to your overall health and management of diabetes. Yard work, brisk walking, cycling, or in-home workouts are all safe ways to get exercise.
• Supportive family and friends
  To protect you, your friends and family should take extra precautions. Some of these may include washing their hands more often, not sharing personal items, and wearing a face mask if you’re in the same room.
• Stay positive
  Staying positive and focusing on those circumstances you can control is always a good foundation for health. Mindfulness activities and gratitude will go a long way to maintaining wellness.

If you do start feeling sick and have COVID-19 symptoms such as a dry cough, fever, or shortness of breath, call your doctor.

Source: https://www.cdc.gov/coronavirus/2019-ncov/need-extra-precautions/people-with-medical-conditions.html

This month we are sharing an earlier Thought Leaders interview with Patricia Smith about compassion fatigue, given the significant impact COVID-19 continues to have on caregivers across the spectrum, from hospital staff to family caregivers. We are reminded of Patricia’s interview and wanted to share it at a time when it could be so helpful to so many.

Patricia graciously agreed to us re-running her 2017 feature article, and was kind enough to write a new introduction. Many thanks to Patricia for her continued contributions to the field and in caregiver communities! Now, let’s hear from Patricia about compassion fatigue in today’s caregiver climate.

As I write this addition to the 2017 interview on compassion fatigue and caregivers, our world is in the grips of COVID-19. This pandemic has created worldwide confusion, anger, pain and suffering. My work over the past 20 years has been focused on caregivers in all of the helping professions, and family caregivers, as well. Now, with the trauma created by the virus, I consider all of us caregivers. Who hasn’t run errands for their elderly parents? Who hasn’t shopped and delivered the groceries to their elderly, ill or disabled neighbors? Who hasn’t sewn masks to be given out to their community members? Who hasn’t worked diligently in lockdown to prepare nutritious meals for themselves and their family members? Who hasn’t advocated what’s right and life-affirming on Facebook, Twitter and other social media? These, and many more actions and behaviors, define care-giving. It is more important than ever that each one of us begin our healing process. As difficult as that is in the eye of the hurricane, it is imperative if we hope to return to a healthy level of wellness, happiness and good health. Find time in each day for authentic self-care. Take a walk in nature, paint a picture, meditate, practice yoga, listen to music that stirs your soul, bake a cake and give half to someone who is weathering the storm alone, plant a vegetable garden, or sit in silence and be thankful for the good that remains in your life. All of these strategies define and promote healing.

Stay safe. Patricia

2017 Thought Leaders Interview with Patricia Smith on Compassion Fatigue

Magellan: Thank you for taking the time to participate in our virtual interview. Can you share with our readers some background regarding your interest and leadership in the area of compassion fatigue and burnout in the mental health and wellness field?

Patricia Smith: I first learned about compassion fatigue as the training and development manager at Humane Society Silicon Valley. After many years as a journalist, I decided I wanted to work with animals. Within the first two weeks in my new job, the executive director asked me to create a shelter-wide compassion fatigue training. I had never heard the term, and the only information I could find was the academic work of Dr. Charles Figley, who was then the director of the Traumatology Institute at Florida State University. I contacted Dr. Figley and he brought me through the process of understanding exactly what compassion fatigue is and how to address the symptoms. At that same time, I took the Professional Quality of Life Self-Test (https://www.proqol.org/ProQol_Test.html) created by Dr. Beth Hudnall Stamm, who also became a mentor. The test revealed that I suffered from very high levels of compassion fatigue. This started me on a journey that has lasted the past 20 years. After several years on my own personal healing journey, I created the Compassion Fatigue Awareness Project in hopes of helping others in the helping professions to understand compassion fatigue and how high levels can devastate a caregiver’s life. The scope of my work has grown beyond anything I could have imagined.

Magellan: You have done a great deal of work looking at aspects of compassion fatigue and burnout. What have you learned over the course of this work, and what recommendations would you make to peers to support their own wellness and to avoid compassion fatigue?

Patricia Smith: My own work has dovetailed with the amazing work being accomplished by professionals such as psychiatrists and psychologists in the field of traumatology and neuroscience. Powerful new information has come about from studies of the effect of trauma on our Wounded Warriors. Post-traumatic stress disorder is now a common phrase and the understanding of trauma on the human body, mind and spirit is widespread. These studies have branched out to include brain studies and how traumatic events impact our brains – and, more important, what we can do about it.

If, indeed, a caregiver suffers a high level of compassion fatigue, which is a secondary traumatic stress syndrome, the best path to take for healing is authentic, sustainable self care. The practices that promote wellness encompass the Standards of Self-Care: nutritious food, exercise, restful sleep, highly functional relationships and replacing toxic habits (smoking, alcohol, drugs, overeating, pornography, etc.) with healthy, life-affirming habits.

Magellan: Your studies/work around compassion fatigue and personal wellness are of particular interest to our readers, given their work in peer support. How can we influence modifiable lifestyle behaviors to improve individual well-being and battle compassion fatigue?

Patricia Smith: Re-wiring our brains to successfully improve the quality of our own lives takes work – lots of work. Healing is an inside job. We must go back in time to heal the wounds we have endured throughout our lives; one of the main causes of compassion fatigue is holding unresolved pain and suffering within. This takes a toll emotionally, but is well-worth the journey. The work involved in healing our wounds is nothing compared to the time, energy and emotional pain it takes to hold them at bay. Everything that has ever happened to us lives within. Pushing down the memories or ignoring them constantly elevates levels of compassion fatigue. Every time we experience additional trauma in our lives, which today is perpetrated everywhere – Facebook, TV news, newspapers— the new trauma hooks into the trauma that already exists. This pattern continues day after day in the helping professions and, eventually, a caregiver will become paralyzed with compassion fatigue. Businesses and organizations can do their part in helping caregivers to modify their lifestyles by educating their employees about compassion fatigue and putting healthy alternatives into place. This could include an edict wherein no business (emails, texts, phone calls) is conducted on weekends or evenings, encouraging mandatory vacations, providing healthy food alternatives in the cafeteria or vending machines, creating walking or biking groups, and other positive encouragement to promote wellness.

Patricia Smith is a certified compassion fatigue specialist with 20 years of training experience. As founder of the Compassion Fatigue Awareness Project©, she writes, speaks and facilitates trainings nationwide in service of those who care for others. She has presented to caregivers in numerous helping professions including social work, health care, law enforcement, chaplain services, suicide prevention and education, among many others. She has authored several books and training materials for caregivers, including the award-winning To Weep for a Stranger: Compassion Fatigue in Caregiving. She served as the caregiving expert for Spry magazine for several years. In September 2016, she presented a TEDx talk on the subject. Additionally, she was the 2012 and 2013 recipient of a writing fellowship at the Helen R. Whiteley Center, in Friday Harbor, Washington, a scholarly research center sponsored by the University of Washington in Seattle.

This is an excerpt from the Magellan Healthcare eMpowered for Wellness September newsletter. To read the full article, go here.

As if 2020 wasn’t already difficult enough with the stressors caused by the COVID-19 pandemic and protests over social justice issues, the upcoming election adds another level of anxiety for many people. A study published by the American Psychological Association in 2019 found that 56% of Americans, regardless of party affiliation, felt stressed about the upcoming presidential election.[1]  If you are feeling overwhelmed by the current political climate, you are not alone.

These feelings can have a negative impact on your emotional and physical health. Symptoms such as low energy, insomnia, loss of appetite, mood swings and tension are signs that you should not ignore. It is important to recognize what you can and cannot control as the election approaches.

You cannot control other people’s opinions, beliefs, reactions or how they express themselves. Nor can you control others’ votes. There are, however, many things you can control during and after the election:

• The amount of time you spend on election news and discussions. While the 24-hour political news cycle on television, radio and the internet is almost impossible to escape, you can limit the amount of time you spend on media each day.
• The coverage, feeds and groups you follow. When you are watching or reading election coverage, avoid negative-leaning discussions, especially if you feel constantly frustrated or upset by them.
• How you interact on social media. Avoid giving angry or emotional responses to posts that do not align with your views. You are unlikely to change other people’s opinions; you are more likely to get unwanted and hostile feedback.
• The time you spend with people. Prioritize your relationships with positive family and friends. Strong social connections can reduce stress and help you feel happier and more energetic. If you and a friend or family member have differing political views, try not to discuss them.
• How much you talk about politics at work. A February 2020 Gartner survey found that 78 percent of employees talk about politics at work; a third of those employees find the conversations stressful or frustrating.[2] Limit or avoid political discussions at work. When you do engage, treat colleagues with kindness and respect, and be aware that political discussions can hamper teamwork and productivity.
• How you deal with stress. Whether it’s meditation, going out in nature, reading a book or working on a hobby, take time every day to do something that makes you feel good. Make sure you get enough sleep and exercise, eat a healthy diet, and avoid using alcohol or drugs to cope.
• How you use your time and talents. Give your time and skills to a cause you believe in. If you have a strong interest in a political cause or candidate, offer to help with a campaign or other event.

Remember that professional help is available through your EAP if stress and anxiety about the election start negatively impacting your quality of life.

[1] https://www.apa.org/news/press/releases/2019/11/americans-significant-stress

[2] https://www.cnbc.com/2020/02/18/47percent-of-workers-say-the-2020-election-has-impacted-their-work.html

It’s hard to comprehend how much the world has changed since the beginning of the COVID-19 pandemic. It has turned our lives upside down in many ways, from school and business closures to quarantines and social isolation. With no clear end in sight, it is not surprising that many people are having difficulty getting used to the “new normal” that is far from what normal life once was.

Families face the challenges of online and home schooling, and the coming school year brings more uncertainty.  In addition, many people are experiencing financial strain from reduced working hours or job losses. Workers may have to work from home and adapt to an entirely new way of working, with little social interaction.  For some workers, juggling parental and domestic duties with the demands of work has been very stressful. Over time, chronic stress can lead to burnout.

Symptoms of burnout include feeling physically depleted, emotionally exhausted and negative about work.[1]

The signs of burnout are similar to those of depression. If left untreated, burnout can lead to physical illness and mental health problems, such as depression and anxiety. Here are some practical tips to manage burnout:

• Set boundaries between work and private life. If you work from home, set clearly defined working hours and a specific work area.
• Take breaks during the day and build transitions in your life between the start of work and the end of the working day. For example, making a transition to work can be as easy as getting a cup of coffee each day and logging into your computer at the same time. To end the day, practice a daily routine such as checking your emails, reviewing priority tasks for the next day and logging off your computer.
• Take your well-earned time off. Even if the pandemic kept you from going somewhere for vacation, a planned “staycation” will allow you to enjoy the well-deserved rest and relaxation. It is important to recharge; you will feel refreshed when you return to work.
• Don’t forget to socialize. When your colleagues start working from home, you may miss the casual social interactions had throughout the day. Like any skill, use it or lose it. Socialization in a time of pandemic takes effort to maintain.
• Make self-care a part of your daily routine. A healthy diet, getting enough sleep and maintaining an exercise schedule can help you cope with and reduce stress.
• Maintain consistent family routines. A regular routine can help all family members feel more focused and productive. If your child is at home learning online either full or part-time or you’re home-schooling, set consistent times for meals, schoolwork, other activities and bedtime.

Help is available. Your program is completely confidential and here to help you and your household members 24/7/365. No situation is too big or too small. Give us a call or visit your program website to get started.

[1] https://www.who.int/mental_health/evidence/burn-out/en/